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Finding Love

Finding love may be one of the most difficult tasks in our lives. It ties right down to our identity. We want a love who we can not only live with but someone we can not live without. Often we confuse sexual feelings for love and we make mistakes picking partners because we are still […]

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October 19, 2013 0
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5 love languages

Folks learn how you best receive love using this little tool…

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February 24, 2011 0
Life Coaching
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Life Coaching

Life Coaching helps you reach your goal whether it is for love, money, family, health including diet and exercise. It is great for support during any transition in life such as new child, job, house, or  family.

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February 23, 2011 0
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Divorce Support

Divorce happens in over 50% of the marriages, but our society still doesn’t accept it easily.  Often the person looses their friends and family not just their spouse. There is a huge sickness rate associated with divorce too which we believe to be spirit based as one goes through such a negative transition. Our spiritual […]

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November 8, 2010 0
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Weddings vs Spiritual Union

As you and your loved one consider making a bigger commitment you should ask if you want traditional marriage or a spiritual union. From a heavenly perspective, both are the same. A commitment to love, honor and cherish each other faithfully for the rest of your lives. What God has joined no man should separate. […]

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August 29, 2010 0
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Pursuit vs Possession

It truly is difficult to know if this relationship is the true love that will last forever. I lived with my husband for several years before the wedding and things changed the day of the marriage. It is the difference between pursuit and possession. Once you have what you want things change. This is true […]

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August 29, 2010 0
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Improving your marriage chances

Modern scientific research indicates that the human race aren’t geese. We don’t mate for life, just for the time to get the kid out and get him safely walking- then the husband moves on, so they say we are about a four year relationship cycle if we were paying attention to the way we were […]

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You don’t quite want a big church wedding, but you want something a little more than a justice of the peace we are here catering all religions. We perform weddings as well as spiritual union ceremonies at our location or yours.  You can do a quick elopement style service to a full fledged traditional wedding […]

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August 29, 2010 0
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Sex and Church

I’ve had a call about the confusion of our church talking about sex… We don’t do erotic, we deal with peoples’ sexual issues.

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Wellness: The ability to carry out daily tasks, enjoy leisure time pursuits and handle emergencies with vigor, passion and confidence.

Encouraging people to achieve balance in spirit, mind and body. Advanced Energy Medicine and Business & Life Coaching includes Reiki, Reflexology, Acupressure, Intuitive Readings, Massage, Nutrition & Personal Training and More.
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You may send text or voice mail to 610-724-7472. Also please contact the office if you would like to volunteer your services in administration, marketing or healing areas.

We are 501(c)3 and rely on your support.
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Ancient Joy Ministries
DBA Bender Healing
P.O. Box 143
Valley Forge, PA 19481-0143
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Corporate Wellness – Business Programs

Corporate Wellness Unique Educational and hands on programs at your site can help your staff make healthy lifestyle choices. Wellness programs have been proven to reduce employee absenteeism and stress, increasing productivity. Some studies estimate an eight fold Return on Investment. Gift certificate programs also available as rewards or as client thank-you options. Call for more information


Help with love life issues
Stretched out clients sore backs, necks and legs
Removed negative energies
Help client leave lover and return to spouse
Needleless Allergy Eliminations for food & chemicals
Helped a client process a divorce
Help woman conceive
Removed several death imprints controlling folks
Helped a client determine ways to million
Cleared negative energy from a family gathering
Helped several folks with colds
Provide QiGong exercise for hearing problems
Supported family through death
Help a client grieve the loss of a pet
Investigated a religion someone wanted client to join
Removed negative energies from a house so it will sell faster, set up a welcoming and buy intention
Joined couples in marriage
Helped a client understand how to forgive
Cleared a remote client's spirit lungs from drug taken 20 years ago, client reported smelling and tasting it
Pointed someone in a direction for a new living space
Help a person understand death process
Help find which doctor/professional to go to


You agree that your session and consultation is subject to your own interpretation and is for your personal growth purposes only. Information you receive does not constitute legal, psychological, medical, business or financial advice. Choices and actions based on the content of your session are your own responsibility.

You must be at least 18 years or older to receive services- except where noted. Parents and legal guardians may request services for their children. You must live with the United States for us to call you, we can communicate through e-mail.

When you register for any service you are agreeing to operate under these legal statements. Also note privacy is guaranteed, but legally we must report suspected child abuse.
A ministry of Ancient Joy Ministries